I am not a puppet but nor the master..What am I?
In the "societies" of humankind always existed the master and the followers, in all kind of human interactions and relationships, as: religious, political, military, family, friendship, etc.
So, what am I am? None. I am a person that thinks for myself and makes my own decisions based on my circumstances.
Me, personally, never felt the need to follow what others do, cause what others do, might be the best for them, but not for me.
And I don't feel the need to tell others to do the same I do, cause my personal situation and needs are different from each person.
And I could never understand when I see others doing it without, even questioning..
I had problems with that. Cause a person that is not a follower nor a leader confuses people. They don't know how to interact with that person.
People are used to " let 's do as I say" or "we do as you say".
The ones that want to be the leaders would try to make me submissive to their wills, some with charm and subtlety.
And the ones that need to follow someone, will look for a leader in another person. Cause they need someone to assure them in their decisions. It makes them feel safer.
What are you? Think well..
I believe that nobody should be a follower. And leaders shouldn't be needed.
So, what am I am? None. I am a person that thinks for myself and makes my own decisions based on my circumstances.
Me, personally, never felt the need to follow what others do, cause what others do, might be the best for them, but not for me.
And I don't feel the need to tell others to do the same I do, cause my personal situation and needs are different from each person.
And I could never understand when I see others doing it without, even questioning..
I had problems with that. Cause a person that is not a follower nor a leader confuses people. They don't know how to interact with that person.
People are used to " let 's do as I say" or "we do as you say".
The ones that want to be the leaders would try to make me submissive to their wills, some with charm and subtlety.
And the ones that need to follow someone, will look for a leader in another person. Cause they need someone to assure them in their decisions. It makes them feel safer.
What are you? Think well..
I believe that nobody should be a follower. And leaders shouldn't be needed.
Leaders are for insecure people, scared people who believe that others know better what is best for them...
How other person will know better what is the best for yourself?!
Leaders, in general, believe that what is the best for them is the best for everybody. They might think that everybody is or should be like them.
They must see themselves as perfect role models for others to follow.. How humble! I didn't know of the existence of perfect human beings!!
It can be a friend, a family member, anybody..
But, there are people that, truly, are just trying to help others.
It is understandable the existence of organization and the stipulation of rules and punishments, made by voting. But that is all that is needed.
Society main moral values should be based in: " Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" - That simple!
How other person will know better what is the best for yourself?!
Leaders, in general, believe that what is the best for them is the best for everybody. They might think that everybody is or should be like them.
They must see themselves as perfect role models for others to follow.. How humble! I didn't know of the existence of perfect human beings!!
It can be a friend, a family member, anybody..
But, there are people that, truly, are just trying to help others.
It is understandable the existence of organization and the stipulation of rules and punishments, made by voting. But that is all that is needed.
Society main moral values should be based in: " Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" - That simple!
Just because some people have good communication skills and says certain things with conviction it doesn't make them truth.
Just because some people studied more than you.. that don't make them more intelligent than you. They didn't discover nothing. They just memorized what was said and discovered by others.
Just because someone is older than you.. that doesn't make them wiser. They are talking about their own experience. Each one of us experience the same things differently.
Of course, if you are sick and you go to the doctor, he, normally, will know better than you. Cause of his knowledge in that specific area ..but even medicine can be wrong..
..In some decades, people will be horrified by the violence of the cancer's treatments..like they are horrified now by the medieval treatments, like: bleeding - that was the solution for all diseases. As alcohol and cocaine was given as medicine, even for children.
The patient stops feeling pain, so the medicine was working and the patient was better. But in reality, they were drugged or drunk.
So even major diplomas don't mean nothing. Science is made of experiences and people are its human guinea pigs.
People need to keep themselves informed.
People should be able to know what are their needs and dreams and not waiting for others to tell them.
People should get to know themselves better and don't underestimated themselves so much..
We can accept, for sure, opinions, advices, suggestions.. but we would just follow what is adjusted to us.